Wed | Jan 13, 2021

He’s An Unbeliever, Yet It’s Hard To Let Go



Dear Lady. Ann:

I am from India! I need some guidance or encouragement in my life. I am in a relationship since 7 years where the guy is not a believer but loves me so badly that his love made me feel like it is the devil’s plan to bind me and keep me away from God’s plans. Although he is much possessive about me, I managed to understand and came adjusting with his attitude but I am not 100 percent willingly into this since day 1. Praise God, He has always kept me away from any kind of sinful actions and now my mom is urging me to get married and not accepting him, but there is nothing I can do about this because the Lord clearly told me that he isn’t the guy.

Moreover my mom is a single parent and I can by no means hurt her. On the other hand, I don’t know how to move away from this relationship as I have a heart that is so sensitive at hurting others. In fact this is the reason why I accepted him into my life but now I am seriously helpless and only hoping God to work. But God has been speaking to me to act and not just sit idle, that is, try to do something to get over him but it is being impossible with me. I don’t know what to do. I somehow felt like sharing it here with you, hoping the Lord shows some door🙌 Thank you sis.