Dear Lady Ann:
I am so in a bad mood now because I think my fiance is delaying our wedding. I have been in a relationship with him for 3 years. It has ups and downs but we are together now. I thought he really wanted to get married to me but recently he said he is under pressure because he feels he is being pushed to the marriage. I feel hurt because I feel like I’m the only one who wants this commitment. Before that, he said he couldn’t wait to get married to me but when it comes, he says we still have lots of time so why the rush. He knows that I want the marriage so bad but he seems very chill out and the only thing he can do is to ask me to be relaxed. Sometimes I feel so lonely in this relationship because I have to act like I am okay but I’m not. I’ve prayed to God million times but He seems silent to me. What should I do now?